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  • Started 2 years ago by Mrs.Mack
  • Latest reply from lucy1965
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  1. Mrs.Mack
    Member

    Well, the SA truck never came. :P

    I'm going to call them first thing in the morning to see if they can come tomorrow. If they can't or don't, I'll call my church and see if their refugee ministry needs furniture. Didn't go that route before because we'd need to rent a truck and haul it ourselves.

    If *they* don't, I'm putting it all on the curb. The tax write-off would have been helpful, but I just don't have time to babysit all of this stuff.

    Grr. Why can't people be at places when they say they will? Between SA and craigslist I'm losing faith in punctuality and common courtesy. :/

    Posted 1 year ago #
  2. lucy1965
    Member

    Oh, that's unbelievably rude!

    Posted 1 year ago #
  3. trillie
    Member

    Wow at the apartment! It really is huge for Japanese measures, my friend and her husband have searched a long time for an affordable two bedroom aparment with a tiny kitchen (and the rooms are roughly the size of your bedroom there). Yay!

    Claycat's suggestion with the loan is good -- friends shouldn't owe each other money, especially when not living in the same area. Nagging via email sucks ;o)

    Keeping my fingers crossed for that SA truck! :o)

    Posted 1 year ago #
  4. Mrs.Mack
    Member

    I called this morning, and they couldn't schedule for today because the pick-up guy already left for his route (five minutes before they weren't answering the phone though!). They said that yesterday the truck was running behind, and he wasn't used to this route, and other such excuses. Really, a phone call to let me know what was up would have sufficed. But not hearing anything is ridiculous.

    The phone person said the word "sorry" once, but they didn't sound sorry at all, which irked me. I just want acknowledgement that they messed up, that's all. :P I have them scheduled for tomorrow, but I went ahead and contacted my church's refugee ministry. We'll see how that goes. If it looks like it'll work out, then I'll cancel SA.

    Glad to know I'm not the only one who thinks they were rude!

    Yes, for a Japanese apartment that is spacious and I'm quite pleased. But all of my American friends are marveling at how we could be downsizing from our current already small space. ;)

    Posted 1 year ago #
  5. Mrs.Mack
    Member

    This is not exactly going to Japan related, but I just wanted to note that I'm going to an "All American" party tonight, which our friends are hosting as a farewell party for us. There'll be hot dogs, chicken wings, corn on the cob, apple pie, and all things American to eat.

    I'm really looking forward to it, as I need a little break. :)

    Posted 1 year ago #
  6. Claycat
    Member

    Sounds yummy! Have a great time!

    Posted 1 year ago #
  7. Dragonclayer
    Member

    I've lived "overseas" for more than thirty years. International and American schools exist almost everywhere near the bigger cities. Here in Den Haag they have an advice blog. I've been collecting advice for people moving here and have put it into a rough collection. It includes pre-moving and adjustment advice, substitutions for products, where to get info , etc. It is 28 pages long but very useful. Are there any suggestions on how I could disseminate this information? Here it will be put on the school's site but I'm new to these forums and don't know what to do with this. Suggestions?

    Posted 1 year ago #
  8. MovingToLowlands
    Member

    Hey Dragonclayer, can you contact me off forum? I am planning to move to the Netherlands in the next few months, and I wonder if you can give me some advice? I dont know what your story is, but I would love to hear why you are in Den Haag!

    My email is april (dot) zookeeper (at) gmail (dot) com, or is there a way to private message?? (Sorry I am new!)
    Thanks!

    Posted 1 year ago #
  9. djk
    Member

    Hi Dragonclayer!
    have you considered putting together a website for expats? Or just start a blog and organize your 28 pages broken down as blog entries by theme? Some information will probably be necessary for people living in Den Haag, some will be general for the Netherlands.

    A quick google for "expat forums" pulls up a number of sites which are used in different cities. I have found them fairly similar in structure, except for one for Prague, which is particularly good. http://www.livingprague.com/

    and hello to MovingToLowlands, you might want to also check out this site:
    http://www.expatica.com/nl/essentials_moving_to.html

    a good start for anyone going overseas is: http://www.justlanded.com/ This site is a good starting point for anyone moving overseas anywhere--several countries and languages are available.

    btw, these expat sites are marvelous sources of information when going to a new place on holiday too. A quick read through what expats experience living in your destination can be really enlightening.

    Posted 1 year ago #
  10. MovingToLowlands
    Member

    Thanks djk, I have been looking at expatica, but justlanded hasnt hit my radar yet. I will check it out.

    Posted 1 year ago #
  11. Claycat
    Member

    Just sitting here, thinking about your long trip, Mrs.Mack! I didn't know exactly what day you were leaving, but I hope you have a very safe trip. I know you will be back to check in, but I'm feeling a little blue. I don't know why! I think I'm feeling a little of a let down, because this part has ended and the next part is starting. That's just me! I'm sentimental, or I should say sillymental. LOL

    Posted 1 year ago #
  12. Mrs.Mack
    Member

    Sorry for the lack of updates; we were SUPER busy.

    But now we're in Japan!!! We got to our new apartment about 10 pm Tokyo time (8 am Chicago time) on the 28th and promptly crashed. The next day we got some groceries, and yesterday went to the ¥100 store to stock up on items this apartment lacks—like bowls, as there are only a couple of really large bowls (not good for cereal) and a gravy boat. And no chopsticks, of all things!

    We have about two weeks of nothing scheduled to get settled and over jet lag before my husband starts his job. We'll be spending that time getting our apartment in order and just relaxing. We both really need a vacation, and though technically this is a stay-cation as this is our home, it's still novel enough that it feels like a real vacation. :)

    Okay, let's go back to where I left off and catch you up on all that went down. The cars FINALLY sold, but at much lower prices than expected. One guy bought the Honda for $3,300, and someone else bought the Toyota for technically $1,700, but only brought $1,500. They said they'd bring the remaining $200 the next day, but of course they never came. :P

    We managed to get all of our loose belongings into 6 banker's boxes, and then we had four boxes that certain appliances or Christmas decorations went into. My brother and SIL took one box, and my very generous aunt and uncle took the rest. What a blessing! Now we don't have to worry about paying for a storage unit.

    Everything else either got packed into our four suitcases/two carry-ons/two backpacks, or was donated. It was a LOT of stuff! I don't know if we'll quite reach the point that we can use it for a tax write off, but we'll see. Between all of that stuff and our other regular monetary donations to various charities and churches, we might baaaaarely make it. Guess we'll find out come March. ;)

    Salvation Army finally came and picked up our furniture. I tried calling around to other charities after they didn't show up that first day, but apparently it was furniture donation season, since most places were too full and couldn't accept any more. So I rescheduled with SA and this time they came. They didn't take as much furniture as I was hoping (not everything I asked for them to take was written on their ticket, and they'd only take what the phone person had written down), but at least they took the bulk of it.

    We had some friends and a relative come and help us clean, which was WONDERFUL. They finished our whole place in about three hours. We hadn't been able to really clean for a few weeks, so it was gross. After they left, the place looked new.

    I think that's everything. If I missed something, let me know.

    I'll be back to update my progress on setting up my new place, don't worry! :)

    Posted 1 year ago #
  13. SunshineR
    Member

    Mrs. Mack: so good to hear from you! I loved the pics of your apartment. The living room looks so spacious compared to what I expected. And you even have a stacking washer and dryer. What a convenience.
    Just relax and rest up...the stress of hurrying to meet your moving day is past.
    Maybe sit and look at some Japanese art? Or go to a garden if you want to get out a bit?
    I'm curious to know: do most people in your city ride bikes, walk, or go by bus? That is so different from what I am used to here in my town. Most everyone has a car.

    Posted 1 year ago #
  14. Claycat
    Member

    Mrs.Mack, I was so glad to come into the forum and see your thread up near the top! What a great post about you completing your move and arriving in Japan! Now you can get familiar with your neighborhood. How exciting! Eat lots of good Japanese food for me! Yum!

    Posted 1 year ago #
  15. Mrs.Mack
    Member

    In Tokyo most people commute by walking, bicycle, or train. Some people will ride the bus, or drive mopeds or cars, but the majority of Japanese people do not have a driver's license. It's very expensive to get one, and with everything so close it's really not necessary (I can easily walk to several different grocery stores, the main bus terminal, and the train station). Parking space is also a problem, so if you have a car it's expensive to park it (most houses do not have driveways or a yard, and the majority of Japanese live in apartments or condos, which usually have no parking).

    Also, the train system is extremely efficient and is always on time to the second. If they are even one minute late they will make announcements and apologize profusely (and being tardy rarely happens). With trains like that, which arrive at the station every five minutes or less, you usually don't need a car. On the rare occasion you do, a taxi will suffice.

    Posted 1 year ago #
  16. djk
    Member

    Mrs. Mack, you made it! enjoy your "staycation" :)

    when you can catch your breath let us know what your newly-acquired advice would be for someone else moving overseas!

    Posted 1 year ago #
  17. MovingToLowlands
    Member

    I will be moving at the end of September and I have read this entire thread in a day! Thanks for the inspiration and guidance, and the trust that I will get through it and be in Europe before I know it! :D

    Posted 1 year ago #
  18. Claycat
    Member

    That is so exciting, MovingToLowlands! Maybe you could post occasionally and tell us about your progress like Mrs.Mack has. You could start a new thread specifically for your posts! I enjoy following along and knowing what you have accomplished.

    Posted 1 year ago #
  19. SunshineR
    Member

    I've really enjoyed this thread. Would enjoy hearing from anyone again.

    Posted 1 year ago #
  20. MovingToLowlands
    Member

    http://unclutterer.com/discuss/topic/moving-overseas-european-edition#post-9380
    At Claycat's suggestion, I have started my own thread about my move to the Netherlands. Thanks, Mrs Mack for your amazing thread, I hope you don't mind if I start my own! :)

    Posted 1 year ago #

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